6/13
A lot of aggressive pandhandlers. You pull up to the bus terminal in a taxi, and someone outside opens the car door unasked, pulls out your luggage, then holds out a hand for you to give them some coins. When you ride long-distance buses, too, many times the guy who puts your luggage away immediately sticks a hand out for a tip, even though he's literally done nothing except move your backpack a couple feet. I think maybe it's easier to be generous in a restaurant than on the street; as the guidebooks say, "if you can afford to eat out, you can probably afford to leave a tip." I've also noticed that Uruguayans and Argentines seem more generous than many Americans would be. In Montevideo, buskers strumming guitars and vendors selling trinkets frequently hop on the city buses, and a surprising number of people cough up some change. Sometimes when you return to a parked car in Montevideo, a person will be there "guarding" it, expecting a few coins from you in exchange for their service.
6/14
There is no magic key to greatness. Travel is not a silver bullet, nor is a gap year, nor is an exchange program... Plenty of people have spent a year in a foreign country, or traveled extensively, or had great adventures, but those experiences don't necessarily convert them into influential people. We put a lot of emphasis on being famous, but being influential seems more worthwhile to me: the important part is to change the world a little, not whether people know it was you that did it. And since very few people in the world achieve influence, maybe you don't have to influence the whole world. It's enough just to be influential to a few people. That's what parents do, isn't it? They change the world a little by shaping the lives of children.
6/18
A lot of aggressive pandhandlers. You pull up to the bus terminal in a taxi, and someone outside opens the car door unasked, pulls out your luggage, then holds out a hand for you to give them some coins. When you ride long-distance buses, too, many times the guy who puts your luggage away immediately sticks a hand out for a tip, even though he's literally done nothing except move your backpack a couple feet. I think maybe it's easier to be generous in a restaurant than on the street; as the guidebooks say, "if you can afford to eat out, you can probably afford to leave a tip." I've also noticed that Uruguayans and Argentines seem more generous than many Americans would be. In Montevideo, buskers strumming guitars and vendors selling trinkets frequently hop on the city buses, and a surprising number of people cough up some change. Sometimes when you return to a parked car in Montevideo, a person will be there "guarding" it, expecting a few coins from you in exchange for their service.
6/14
There is no magic key to greatness. Travel is not a silver bullet, nor is a gap year, nor is an exchange program... Plenty of people have spent a year in a foreign country, or traveled extensively, or had great adventures, but those experiences don't necessarily convert them into influential people. We put a lot of emphasis on being famous, but being influential seems more worthwhile to me: the important part is to change the world a little, not whether people know it was you that did it. And since very few people in the world achieve influence, maybe you don't have to influence the whole world. It's enough just to be influential to a few people. That's what parents do, isn't it? They change the world a little by shaping the lives of children.
6/18
There's a funny phenomenon I've noticed, where some people's voices sound warm and appealing when they speak Spanish, but when they speak English their voice sounds nasal and annoying. It totally changes the way you perceive them. Or the change can go the other way around: one woman I met seemed sort of frail and elderly in Spanish, but in English she had this compelling authority, and for the first time I noticed the graveliness in her voice. In a way, speaking in another language transforms you into a different person: since you're unable to express yourself fully, only a portion of your personality comes across.
I'm not sure what the protocol is when you enter a restaurant in Argentina or Uruguay. Do I wait for a waiter to direct me to a seat? Or do I just take a seat and then they come to the table? Weird how you never think about these things when you're in your own country.
Memorable sounds:
Dale vacas vacas vacas..."Come on cows cows cows..." (this is what Hugo C. yelled when herding cows)
Paraguas vendooooooo! Paraguass paraguass paraguaaaaaas!
"I'm selling umbrellaaaaaaaaaaaaas! Umbrellas umbrellas umbrellas!" (yelled by one of the many street vendors)I love to watch salsa dancers, or people playing candombe: drummers with smiles or with their mouths open, intent, focused. Behind the formation of drummers and dancers, a slow crowd of beautiful young listeners moves down the street, some clutching beer bottles or wine in paper packages. The sharp smell of smoke drifts from someone in the crowd every now and then.
It's a strange feeling when you wake up in bed and at first it's quiet, and then suddenly you hear your first Spanish of the day: maybe your host is calling to you from another room, or the radio's on, or someone's talking noisily in the street outside... Suddenly it hits you that you're in a different country. That's how every day begins.
Do I have a right to be offended by South Americans who treat Americans with suspicion and dislike? I need to learn the history of my country, how it affects and has affected other countries. What is the place of the United States in the world?
You know you've settled in abroad when you can eat at McDonald's without a trace of shame, ordering a "Beeg Mock" instead of a Big Mac.
Since I'm in Uruguay during a World Cup in which it performs spectacularly, I get to see the city after a victorious game. It's loud, chaotic, almost what I imagine Mumbai to be like. This is the day I get mugged. I get off the city bus a few blocks from the Plaza Independencia, where a gigantic screen has been set up for Montevideans to watch Uruguay play against Ghana. As I'm waiting to cross the street, I feel something touching my hands. It's three kids, probably my age or a couple years younger, who have walked up behind me out of nowhere, and two of them were prying my hands open, trying to see if I was holding anything valuable, I guess. Next thing I know, the third kid has punched me in the forehead. I'm down, they take the coat I was carrying (lent to me by my host family), and they're gone. I yell an unkind word in English, they yell back hijo de puta, and I watch the game against Ghana with a bad mood and a big bump on my head. For a while, I'm suspicious of all the sketchy soccer-hooligan guys I see (which is what the muggers looked like), and it occurs to me that prejudices based on appearance or nationality aren't right, but they're understandable. I'm no longer invulnerable; after that, I always look around carefully, because not paying attention is asking for trouble.
7/22/10
Walk slower, what's the rush? Slow the @%!# down and enjoy the moment more.
I'm preparing to leave Uruguay and spend a few days in Buenos Aires. In my imagination, Buenos Aires is a city full of well-dressed women in somber colors, black coat, fitted dark jeans, gray scarf, black leather boots (popular, maybe, because of the city's proximity to Argentina's cattle plains). Don't expect people to be friendly in Buenos Aires, I tell myself. When I get there, though, I'm pleasantly surprised after all the ominous warnings I'd heard in Uruguay.
You know you've settled in abroad when you can eat at McDonald's without a trace of shame, ordering a "Beeg Mock" instead of a Big Mac.
Since I'm in Uruguay during a World Cup in which it performs spectacularly, I get to see the city after a victorious game. It's loud, chaotic, almost what I imagine Mumbai to be like. This is the day I get mugged. I get off the city bus a few blocks from the Plaza Independencia, where a gigantic screen has been set up for Montevideans to watch Uruguay play against Ghana. As I'm waiting to cross the street, I feel something touching my hands. It's three kids, probably my age or a couple years younger, who have walked up behind me out of nowhere, and two of them were prying my hands open, trying to see if I was holding anything valuable, I guess. Next thing I know, the third kid has punched me in the forehead. I'm down, they take the coat I was carrying (lent to me by my host family), and they're gone. I yell an unkind word in English, they yell back hijo de puta, and I watch the game against Ghana with a bad mood and a big bump on my head. For a while, I'm suspicious of all the sketchy soccer-hooligan guys I see (which is what the muggers looked like), and it occurs to me that prejudices based on appearance or nationality aren't right, but they're understandable. I'm no longer invulnerable; after that, I always look around carefully, because not paying attention is asking for trouble.
7/22/10
Walk slower, what's the rush? Slow the @%!# down and enjoy the moment more.
I'm preparing to leave Uruguay and spend a few days in Buenos Aires. In my imagination, Buenos Aires is a city full of well-dressed women in somber colors, black coat, fitted dark jeans, gray scarf, black leather boots (popular, maybe, because of the city's proximity to Argentina's cattle plains). Don't expect people to be friendly in Buenos Aires, I tell myself. When I get there, though, I'm pleasantly surprised after all the ominous warnings I'd heard in Uruguay.